Dedicated Matchmaking Is Affordable With The Largest Collective of Singles & Matchmakers
Thoughtful and professional matchmaking doesn't need to be super expensive. We do simple pay-per-intro matching, where you pay when both people want to meet. Pricing is published, transparent, and the same for everyone.
And this is the only place where you can get in front of tons of vetted matchmaking companies at once (85 and counting). Through the network we can leverage thousands of their relationship-minded clients, leading to a better chance at lasting love for you.
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
We use our unique relationships with partner matchmakers to expand your curated match options.
Instead of huge upfront cost, pay a small setup fee and then per match. No scary contract. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share profiles with multiple photos to both people and ask if they're interested, ensuring mutual attraction.
How We Match Members
We are extremely thoughtful and thorough about how we match individuals, combining analytics, tech and intuition. We collect a lot of data about members (without tiring them out) to efficiently and effectively identify compatibility.
Here is some of what we take into account:
- Custom FiltersWe look at the type of person you're looking for and can generally filter for exactly what you're looking for.
- EducationPeople often end up with someone of a similar educational background, so we keep this in mind.
- Drinking habitsWe don’t just look at general labels like drinking “socially”, as that spans a huge range; we break it down into five dimensions.
- Drug habitsFrequency of drug use and what you’re open to in a partner, broken down even by type of drug as that can matter to people.
- Smoking habitsCigarette use is often a dealbreaker, so knowing if and how often someone smokes is crucial.
- Fitness levelHow frequently someone works out is important in determining whether lifestyles align.
- PetsPets are a part of one's family, so if someone doesn't like your dog or cat that could be a major issue.
- Eating habitsFood is important as we eat every day! We ask how health-conscious you are and if you have any special eating habits.
- PersonalityPeople are often attracted to someone with a different energy level - the more talkative/energetic person balances with someone less so.
- ValuesWe determine what people prioritize in their life - independence, time with family, career ambition, honesty, etc.
- InterestsThere should be overlap in what you like to do. We can filter for any hobbies you love to quickly find people who love that too.
- Religious viewsWhat does someone identify with spiritually, how much do they practice, and how important is alignment in a partner?
- Political affiliationWhat does someone identify with politically, and how important is alignment in a partner?
- Love languagesTaken from the famous 5 Love Languages. Helpful in knowing whether personalized needs can be met easily.
Specific Matchmaking Types
We effectively work with many different types of individuals. Unlike traditional matchmaking companies that focus on exclusivity and elitism, we're an inclusive service.
Here are examples of the groups we service:
- Black singles
- Christian singles
- Educated singles
- Gay singles
- Indian singles
- Jewish singles
- LDS singles
- Lesbian singles
- LGBTQ+ singles
- Mature singles
- Muslim singles
- Older singles
- Successful singles
- Senior singles
- Spiritual singles
- Younger singles
“The Matchmaker To The Matchmakers”
We want the best for you. If we believe that you'd be better suited to work with one of our partner matchmaking companies, we're happy to refer you. There's no additional cost and no obligation. We partner with over 85 companies, many of them specialized in certain areas. We want you to benefit from our experience working with them and our intimate knowledge of the industry.
Depending on your budget, you may even want to work with multiple paid services to increase your match options and chances of success.
If you're interested in intros to other recommended companies OR just having us get to know you better, book a 45 min. video call for $195. We look forward to helping!
We offer three tiers to suit your budget and needs.
Meet Partner Matchmaker Clients
Our partners identify a fit
Must Talk With a Partner
To meet a potential match
Meet Other DateSpot Members
Through our propritary matching system
Largest Candidate Pool
Almost free for the other person
Proactive Photo Review
Plus further selection with an optional shoot
2 Month Check-In Call
To discuss the initial search & next steps
Live Candidate Vetting
Via video call
Feedback From First Dates
Learn what they thought & if they're interested
Dedicated Proactive Search
We focus on you until we find your match
Outreach To Partner Network
Asking if they have any clients or non-clients
Retail Partner Discounts
On products & services we love
50% Off Any DateSpot Event
Currently SF Bay Area only, more to come
“It’s been a pleasure working with Carla and DateSpot! Carla is professional, personable and genuinely cares about finding her clients their forever person. She has a way of making her clients feel at ease and open up about what they’re really looking for in a relationship. Her creativity and use of technology also sets her apart from other matchmakers."
“I can’t say enough wonderful things about Carla! I’ve known her for several years and am always impressed by her poise, knowledge, compassion, eye for detail, connections, and kind heart. DateSpot is a fantastic community of exceptional professionals looking for that special someone. If you’re looking for love, Carla can help. She has an extensive reach and is well respected amongst her peers. She truly wants people to find their partner as well as to grow throughout their journey. Thank you Carla!”
"I cannot recommend Carla highly enough as a matchmaker. I've seen a couple other services advertised online and gone on dates with their clients, and I can say with confidence that the quality of the service Carla provides is in a league far and away above the others. I felt like she not only took a great deal of care to understand me, what I'm looking for, and why -- both in the beginning and ongoing -- but also that she is insightful and talented in actually achieving that understanding."
Want to talk about your specific search so we can get to know you and provide the best matches? Whether you know which route you want to do or are unsure which path to take, we're happy to chat! It's helpful to get to know you regardless.
For $195, meet directly with DateSpot's founder over a 45 minute video call. We can clarify your search, get deeper-level personal info, review photos, answer any questions, and choose your tier.
If you're thinking about Premium membership, we want to talk to you to get to know you and make sure we feel confident taking on your search, so the consultation is required.
We look forward to talking soon!